[zzinco79]

Originally Posted by leejoobin

yeah.
2 years of your life in military. thats not even voluntary.
and almost don't even get paid.

i used to fight with my brother all the time. like everyday. (older brother)
i guess i was the one that was being annoying/noisy.
but after a big fight we had, where he too said, he was going to kill me.
after that we don't talk at all unless it's an emergency, dying important.
i'm not sure if that's what you want.

but i never messed up his car or anything.
i don't know why your sister is being a/an ********. (whichever the word you prefer.)
maybe she'll grow up someday, but i don't see anyway of stopping it soon.
just hope you deal with her alrite.

She and I was like you and your brother before. she lived in NYC and I lived in Rochester. We only talked via phone in emergency or dying important situations. We were good at that time. Now, I just can't live with her bcuz we always end up fight each other whenever we met.
I was not toooooo mad about the car. It will get fixed anyway. I just pissed at her reaction and being psychotic. I just don't wanna deal with it anymore and try to find the way to kick her out of my house.
BTW, thanks for input.

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by zzinco79

Your screen name tells me that you are Korean.

and I guess you know something about the fucked up military service we have to do.

I just can't go to military now. I have to study and graduate college.

maybe after college, I will throw her into the oven and cook her with 300 F.

dude i'm asian too so i understand what you're going through

i have a psycho younger sis who basically wanted my car just because she enjoys seeing me in misery; my dad told her he would buy any car she wanted but noooooooo.....she only wants my car....wtf right....so i sold the e90 and got a 6mt since she cant drive stick

havent talked to her ever since and promised myself that i will never talk to her ever again no matter what....if you ever decide to do the same thing i did, explain it to your parents as well....i told my parents: the reason why is because it is for the greater good of the family....whats the point in communicating with her if it will only lead to arguments and end up disappointing them? and remember, every time siblings quarrel, parents will feel that they fail raising up their children...i dont know if this applies to most, if not, all asian parents but at least thats how my parents feel and i had to convince them that its not their fault

anyway my point is you're old enough to make your own decisions and your parents especially your dad should know and understand this....if i were you, i would ask daddy to cut her allowance and use that money to repair the car...then i'll drive teh sh1t outta her car; of course scraping every side of the bumper and make sure that the exhaust falls off

[leejoobin]

i'm glad i don't have a younger sister.
anyone here find their younger sister useful???

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by leejoobin

i'm glad i don't have a younger sister.
anyone here find their younger sister useful???

probably incestuous sons in the deep south

[zzinco79]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

dude i'm asian too so i understand what you're going through

i have a psycho younger sis who basically wanted my car just because she enjoys seeing me in misery; my dad told her he would buy any car she wanted but noooooooo.....she only wants my car....wtf right....so i sold the e90 and got a 6mt since she cant drive stick

havent talked to her ever since and promised myself that i will never talk to her ever again no matter what....if you ever decide to do the same thing i did, explain it to your parents as well....i told my parents: the reason why is because it is for the greater good of the family....whats the point in communicating with her if it will only lead to arguments and end up disappointing them? and remember, every time siblings quarrel, parents will feel that they fail raising up their children...i dont know if this applies to most, if not, all asian parents but at least thats how my parents feel and i had to convince them that its not their fault

anyway my point is you're old enough to make your own decisions and your parents especially your dad should know and understand this....if i were you, i would ask daddy to cut her allowance and use that money to repair the car...then i'll drive teh sh1t outta her car; of course scraping every side of the bumper and make sure that the exhaust falls off

Glad to meet an asian member who actually understand my situation.

I can't just break her car or stuff. it will need my father's money to fix it. I don't want that. I tried to talk to my dad about my sister, seriously. But he didn't trust me. He just thought my sister wouldn't do it. That is the only thing that drives me crazy.
BTW, mine is older, not younget. She is 28.

[zzinco79]

Older sister is also useless.

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by zzinco79

Glad to meet an asian member who actually understand my situation.

I can't just break her car or stuff. it will need my father's money to fix it. I don't want that. I tried to talk to my dad about my sister, seriously. But he didn't trust me. He just thought my sister wouldn't do it. That is the only thing that drives me crazy.
BTW, mine is older, not younget. She is 28.

dude, i was joking about the breaking her car and sh1t
but seriously, just let it pass and prioritize the car first....once your car is fixed, dont let her drive your car ever again...if she or your dad complains, say that she has her own car to drive....or you can just say you lost the key every time she wants to borrow the car

[Rips335iCoupe]

You are the one that let her drive your car!! DON'T LET FAMILY AND FRIENDS DRIVE YOUR CAR!!!

[leejoobin]

whoa. 28?!
and she is living with you???????
she got a job? bf???
she should out living by herself.
or. get a husband.

[mds82]

PICS????

[NaTuReB0Y]

Originally Posted by mds82

PICS????

+1

[zzinco79]

I can't post her pics here

she has her own privacy to consider.

She just look psycho.. imagine yourself haha

[Kiemyster]

man. ive got an older sister... but we both share the passion for cars... so i dont mind lending her my car.

i understand what your situation is. you need to pull your sister aside, and just talk to her calmly. dont be agressive in the conversation. be like: look, im not blaming you for damaging my car. i didnt appriciate how you lied to our dad... for you have broken my trust with him, and now you have broken my trust with you. so i ask you, for the benifit of the family to call him and be honest.

now, while saying that, you should have like 2 rats in a shoe box. if she goes psyco, let them loose in her room. when she goes anal, say: remember? i told you i had rats the day you came back with my car destroyed.....

and the situation will solve itself. good luck getting through with this without killing her. and lets see a pic of her?

[BMXtreme]

I live in Queens..no rat..i can accommodate her..LOLLLLL

I am asian and my siblings are normal and my bro loves car just as much as I do, my sis on the otehr hand doesn't care much bout cars and she won;t take your car..

[mesier1111]

Originally Posted by zzinco79

U got it. My dad paid for my car and he paid/will pay my tuition.

Its really all about the money... and... I'm Korean... what can I do with it? it really sucks.

Is your dad upset with you because you are fighting with your sister or because he thinks you are the one that screwed up the car?

[ah gon]

sorry to hear that!i think u need to live without your family support.get your own money,car,place.... then u can complete solve this problem.
and i will kill your sister if i were u.never never never let her even touch your car again.

[CheshireCat]

Funny everytime I read the OP's posts in my mind I read it with an accent equivalent to the asian kid in the goonies.

[Etnies]

Sounds like your sister is a little b*tch.

[just4kickz]

be a man and tell ur dad straight up what she did to your ride. thats unexcusable... if ur dad aint listening then bitch him out. doesnt matter if you win or not... as long as you tell em what you think.

[AH]

well,... i think that's the advantage of being a female.... she can flip you world upside down.
Luckily my younger sister gets along pretty well with me

[UncleWede]

A car is more important than a sibling??? (shakes head with huge frown)

[Excellence]

Korean girls are hot. I wanna see pictures!

Honestly if I saw my 335i in that condition and if I were you, I'd tell my dad to buy me a M3 and give my sister the damn broken ass 335 so she can kill the car.