[xxForgedxx]

I'm almost 23 and well... my game is strong enough that it isn't uncommon for me to cross paths with an older (older than me) woman that is interested. However, I some times wonder if I could do it... date a girl that already had a kid. To me it is such a hard decision to make especially considering I don't know if I would ever feel close enough to the person providing everything went that far. Almost as if I would never mean as much to her as the first dude who gave her the most important thing to her. Make sense? Weird but I don't know if I could do it.

[silvergray545]

nope i could never do it but im 19 so what do i know

[TiAg335i]

I'm 20....I wouldn't do it. Too much baggage IMO.

[The_Blob]

I would never date a milf in her 40's with a kid. As a friend ok, but not like a long term relationship.

[silvergray545]

Originally Posted by TiAg335i

I'm 20....I wouldn't do it. Too much baggage IMO.

exactly plus i wouldnt want to take care of someone elses kid

[ZJP]

Hell no.

[kevinbahnz]

I dated(had a relationship) with a baby momma. She was 23 we lived together for 2 and a half years. I bounced on her , not because of the kid but because she was unfaithful. But i wouldnt want to date another girl with a kid . like some of you said, too much baggage. You might change your mind when you get older and have some baggages of your own. hahah

[ArmyBimmerDude]

I have. Nothing wrong with it. I mean it's not like you have to adopt the child. I love kids so it's never been an issue. Problems arise from the baby's daddy I suppose. When you get older, it really isn't a big deal. At least not for me.

[GuyOh]

maybe if i was over 35, or if i was old and divorced

[Oregano123]

if she treats me as her boy toy and takes care of me, YES.
if i wear the pants in the relationship, NO

[ADHD]

Originally Posted by bmwhype

if she treats me as her boy toy and takes care of me, YES.
if i wear the pants in the relationship, NO

Nailed me to a T!! lol

[Asiann]

You did say dating so the child would not be of a big concern as if you were marrying her. I did it and I barely saw the baby.

[martieg]

We would never what we're capable of until we try

[Joonsup]

it makes sense that if you're still young in your early 20s you'd say hell know lemme get the fawk out of here. but as you get older it wont be as big of a deal. trust me

[BMWdmk]

just hit it, quit and say you never did it

[MrSteak]

Originally Posted by dmkaldas

just hit it, quit and say you never did it

Hah, well you wouldn't be the first to do that (kids dad would be #1).


But in all seriousness... Hell NO! She may be easier than normal, but who wants to date a cum dumpster.

I've seen a few single girls with kids, and they're in that position for a reason. They want to be whores, or date thugs/assholes/old dudes/etc... that are gonna use them, this is what they get (deserve). Given people make mistakes, but when you date a certain type of guy (over and over) and you get screwed over (literally & figuratively) it shows a lot about your (lack of) character.

[kevinbahnz]

"cum dumpster"

[Year's_End]

No. But I'm still a week and a half shy of 19, so I don't really apply.

[karliejai]

Originally Posted by The_Blob

I would never date a milf in her 40's with a kid. As a friend ok, but not like a long term relationship.

friend?! what friend?

[akack79]

If Jessica Alba with kid in tow is ever single again..............

[Enjoiyourlife]

im 23 and no......... baggage.. ive heard all the stories.

my buddy dated a girl with a kid... bad news.... drama with the baby daddy

my ex gf dated a guy with a kid.... drama with the baby mama.

[Tondtar]

May be ...Only if she is not older and does not drive a Cadillac :

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=174862