[docbolo]

go for it Ms. Bella. Bring Mace with you just incase.

Maybe nice guys* do finish first after all





*big wallet required

[Nemis]

italy? where in italy? :-)
euro vs dollar is good today? mhh

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Explorer3253

Not necessarily...I know when I took my ex to Disney about 3 years ago and I spent about 2500 total, I took like $200 from her just so that she didn't feel that she didn't put a single dime in...Especially since that was during the beginning of the relationship. When I took her to Vegas for her bday last summer, I took nothing...but thats because we were far more into it at that point...

Its not really about the money when spending that much and taking a little kickback. Its more so that the other person doesn't feel like they are using you.

Bella, I'm sure if you put nothing in, it may feel a little awkward, however if you put in a few bucks, the awkwardness goes away

wow...as I'm typing this thing about my ex, a song from a concert we went to comes on..go figure..STUPID MEMORIES!

Yeah you nailed it on the head as to why i want to give him some money. Because if i dont give him any money, then i really feel awkward, and a gold digger. But if pay atleast some of the hotel, or some of my airfare, well im pitching in. Hes better finiancially than i am, so its only natural for him to foot most of the bill.

He took me out to lunch today . We had a good time. He is fun to be around, so maybe the trip might be great. Who knows, ill give it a little more time bfore i give him the definite. But hey im young once, not married, no kids.. i shoudl just go for it

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Explorer3253

what do i get if i take you to the empire state building when you come to NYC?

HAHAH sorry bud, but ive alreayd been to the empire state buildiing. Nice try tho

[DLJJ3399]

Go with him Bella.

While you're there with him, you'll probably run into and meet your future boyfriend or husband! One never knows…

But here’s some advice for you. I've always enjoyed the finer things in life when I worked hard to get them for myself.

That way no one can tell me what to do, or ever take what I have away from me. Especially my fun!

It sucks to be cut off and have your future at someone else’s whim. My 2 cents. But my advice is 5 cents.

So you still owe me 3...

[Nikki]

why does it matter what anyone on the internet thinks? how about deciding for yourself what to do.

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Nikki

why does it matter what anyone on the internet thinks? how about deciding for yourself what to do.

HAHA and this is coming from the girl who posted on a male dominated internet car forum what she should wear out to a club!?

[Nikki]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

HAHA and this is coming from the girl who posted on a male dominated internet car forum what she should wear out to a club!?

yeah over 6 months ago to get some conversation started.

and plus what to wear isn't a major decision or anything. i'm just saying maybe you should ask yourself what YOU want to do and not worry about other people.

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Nikki

yeah over 6 months ago to get some conversation started.

and plus what to wear isn't a major decision or anything. i'm just saying maybe you should ask yourself what YOU want to do and not worry about other people.

Im not worried about other people. i dont care if they judge me, im asking for their advice on this situation, since most of these posters are older and have more experience. PLUS, they are men, they would know more about what his intentions are then i would.

Anyway, i shouldnt have to explain why. And if it bothers you, then dont reply to any of my threads.

[Nikki]

it wasn't an attack or anything, no need to get defensive. i was just wondering why you want others to make important decisions in your life. and i wasn't referring to this thread alone, but rather a bunch of threads that have been posted within the past couple months.

[Explorer3253]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Yeah you nailed it on the head as to why i want to give him some money. Because if i dont give him any money, then i really feel awkward, and a gold digger. But if pay atleast some of the hotel, or some of my airfare, well im pitching in. Hes better finiancially than i am, so its only natural for him to foot most of the bill.

He took me out to lunch today . We had a good time. He is fun to be around, so maybe the trip might be great. Who knows, ill give it a little more time bfore i give him the definite. But hey im young once, not married, no kids.. i shoudl just go for it

as long as you feel comfortable around him and you two get along and trust him...hey..why not! obviously be cautious!

[Explorer3253]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

HAHAH sorry bud, but ive alreayd been to the empire state buildiing. Nice try tho

fine...how about if i take you to serendipity like in the movie! =)

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Nikki

it wasn't an attack or anything, no need to get defensive. i was just wondering why you want others to make important decisions in your life. and i wasn't referring to this thread alone, but rather a bunch of threads that have been posted within the past couple months.

Advice is meant to be taken and considered. But in the end, the ultimate decision will be made by me. Not by someone else. However, before making a big decision it's good to consult with your peers in order to make a better evaluated judgement. Sometimes as an outsider, you're able to give a better outlook, peering in on a particular circumstance is different than actually being a part of it. So if someone here has an insight that i may have overlooked due to my excitement, anticipation, worries, then it will only benefit me in the end.

[Nikki]

must be a girl thing. i don't see any guys on here asking for advice on anything really.

[ScBlacksunshine]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Advice is meant to be taken and considered. But in the end, the ultimate decision will be made by me. Not by someone else. However, before making a big decision it's good to consult with your peers in order to make a better evaluated judgement. Sometimes as an outsider, you're able to give a better outlook, peering in on a particular circumstance is different than actually being a part of it. So if someone here has an insight that i may have overlooked due to my excitement, anticipation, worries, then it will only benefit me in the end.

Karmer from Seinfeld said it best..."Caaaa...Catfight...meowww"

[ska///235i]

Bella....he sounds like a Playa, don't be fool by his "not so attractive" looks

[magmd]

Originally Posted by Nikki

must be a girl thing. i don't see any guys on here asking for advice on anything really.

You have got to be joking! There are threads asking for advice here like once per week! You must not bother clicking on those....

[canucklion]

like the girl that asked which color to get for her 325....

Originally Posted by Nikki

must be a girl thing. i don't see any guys on here asking for advice on anything really.

[Explorer3253]

Originally Posted by Nikki

must be a girl thing. i don't see any guys on here asking for advice on anything really.

yeah we do....we're always asking relationship advice..lol....speaking of which..hey bmwe90 (i think thats who it was)..u ever get the girl? :rocks:

[Juve29]

Bella go with the guy you might even like him. Everyone has something to offer, some have good looks while other have money. Remember good looks don't last forever everybody eventually becomes ugly. My advice to you is go for the money. Plus, you say that he is a nice guy. He is rich and he is a nice guy what more do you want. Long term prosperity is much more important than love. You get fed up of everything and thats why you need money to get different things. Keeping it new. Money buys you a trip to Italy Love does not buy you anything.

[Texas Ex]

Be careful and safe but Go and have fun! I'm sure you will have a wonderful time!

[donger274]

i was kidding about the gold digger