What should I do with this girl?

lowcash_dreamcar · 02-23-2009, 04:21 PM

Hey fellas,

Me and my buddy were at this bar last saturday and two chicks(1 hot and 1 cute) hit upon us and we started talkin..well, my buddy was interested in the cute one.. So, i went for the hot one

Those girls already had some alcohol before they met us. We started talking and after 15 to 20 mins, this hot chick started kissing me. I was taken aback initially cos' we had just met minutes before and hadn't even got a chance to get them drinks. She was really into me and I had some trouble giving her the right kind of kiss she wanted as she kept telling me that I needed to learn to kiss(well, its been quite a long time since I got physical with someone) and I wasn't prepared for this either. But, she persisted with me and we went on for an hour and she started liking it. Man, she was HOT!!

Finally, we got out of there and went to a nearby stripbar where things got a little rough. She wanted me 2 buy her a lapdance and then she didn't stop until the place was closed and i guess she took close to 8 dances!!! Man i thought I was acting stupid and tried getting her out of there, but she was creating a scene..Well, we finally had to leave when the place closed and she gave me her number and she and her friend left..

I SMS'd her on sunday and haven't got a reply yet..What do you guys think I should do? Should I call her? If I do, what should I start with? I have not dealt with this kinda chick before..She's damn hot..but seems to be pretty dominant, atleast when she's drunk..It's only bcos she has all the good STUFF

, i am still thinking about her..I alteast need to get back my money's worth from her..

Wat dyaul say?

Kensta335 · 02-23-2009, 04:32 PM

pics or it didn't happen

SfValley335i · 02-23-2009, 04:33 PM

you should've tried to hit it that night... you blew it.
$100 she wont answer/call you back

ideliver · 02-23-2009, 04:34 PM

and depends on what you are looking for...this one is clearly nuts...but you know that already...if you want (need) a little drama in your life...you found it...just pick up the phone and give her a call...

Crimson92 · 02-23-2009, 04:35 PM

sounds like you got owned

mJ335 · 02-23-2009, 04:39 PM

Congratulations, looks like you just got jacked. All I see is that she wanted some lap dances and she got some, thanks to you. +1 to she won't pick up the phone.

StrifeM3 · 02-23-2009, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by lowcash_dreamcar

Hey fellas,

Me and my buddy were at this bar last saturday and two chicks(1 hot and 1 cute) hit upon us and we started talkin..well, my buddy was interested in the cute one.. So, i went for the hot one

Those girls already had some alcohol before they met us. We started talking and after 15 to 20 mins, this hot chick started kissing me. I was taken aback initially cos' we had just met minutes before and hadn't even got a chance to get them drinks. She was really into me and I had some trouble giving her the right kind of kiss she wanted as she kept telling me that I needed to learn to kiss(well, its been quite a long time since I got physical with someone) and I wasn't prepared for this either. But, she persisted with me and we went on for an hour and she started liking it. Man, she was HOT!!

Finally, we got out of there and went to a nearby stripbar where things got a little rough. She wanted me 2 buy her a lapdance and then she didn't stop until the place was closed and i guess she took close to 8 dances!!! Man i thought I was acting stupid and tried getting her out of there, but she was creating a scene..Well, we finally had to leave when the place closed and she gave me her number and she and her friend left..

I SMS'd her on sunday and haven't got a reply yet..What do you guys think I should do? Should I call her? If I do, what should I start with? I have not dealt with this kinda chick before..She's damn hot..but seems to be pretty dominant, atleast when she's drunk..It's only bcos she has all the good STUFF

, i am still thinking about her..I alteast need to get back my money's worth from her..

Wat dyaul say?

Dont text msg her anymore and dont even call her until maybe a week after...you already msg her and she didnt reply which usually inclines not a good thing. If i was in your shoes i will let her text you or call u until the weeks up....and then you make the call. Text msg her the next day you meet a woman is never a good thing unless she texts you first....hot or not...

Seminole · 02-23-2009, 05:13 PM

I say unless she answers you back let her go. She already got a lot out of you by getting you to pay for lap dances, and if you try to keep contacting her you are going to look desperate, and then the only reason she is going to get in touch with you will be to wring you out a little more.

Just chalk this up as a story about making out with some banging chick.

ACZakka325i · 02-23-2009, 05:18 PM

You got taken for a ride.

lowcash_dreamcar · 02-23-2009, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by cars4lyfe

8 lap dances? I woulda made HER give me 7 lap dances after paying for the 1st and then I woulda busted a creamy nut on her chin and call it a night.

Man, I almost got her to let me drive her at the end of the night. I thought I w as going to make her wiggle the next day, but this cute friend of hers was cautious about what was going on and she objected to me driving. Since, my buddy was hitting up on her, i couldn't get her out of the way

BillLee · 02-23-2009, 05:35 PM

owned

TMNT · 02-23-2009, 05:37 PM

If you were going to get any action...your only chance was that night...If she hasn't responded to you it....your done.

She was probably drunk and horny. Now shes sober and a bitch.

xxForgedxx · 02-23-2009, 05:54 PM

There are rules that you must follow from now on:

-Don't buy girls drinks (or anything for that matter) unless you are already involved with her, she is a friend... or something of that nature. She took you for some CASH, and you thought it was getting you some where. You are out of the cash unfortunately

-If some chick starts making out with you within' that time frame in public, it makes you both look trashy. Sure a little bit but a full on make out = a good kind of fail. Did you know you could get herpes from making out with a girl? Even if it's not broken out!

-She was too drunk to begin with, so either she is a hoe sober and drunk... or was just too drunk to begin with.

-I would call her once more, if she doesn't answer then leave a message... if you don't hear from her again that mean she is a 100% fail and you should delete that shit (keep in mind though, this call is for hook up purposes only)

-Consult your friend and his production with the "Cute" one, you can get indirect intel that will answer all your questions.

What would I do or think? Psh, stupid hot drunk girl that I made out with at a bar, if she doesn't answer then fuck it. MAN AM I PISSED ABOUT THAT MONEY I LOST! (assuming I am you of course)

Oh and finally!

DON'T BUY GIRLS SHIT! IF SHE WANTS YOU, MAKE HER WANT YOU FOR FREE!

MadDog · 02-23-2009, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by TMNT

If you were going to get any action...your only chance was that night...If she hasn't responded to you it....your done.

She was probably drunk and horny. Now shes sober and a bitch.

+1. She took you for a ride.

.:bHd:. · 02-23-2009, 06:07 PM

Read a book called The Game by Neil Strauss, you would have closed that after she made out with you.. How old are you by the way?

jj thumper · 02-23-2009, 06:26 PM

It does suck when you’re not expecting it, I feel you. Suck it up, accept your 400 lesson and move on (SF Prices).

Drunken girls are like chipmunks with A.D.D. and they like shiny things.

And get a better wingman!!

samwoo2go · 02-23-2009, 06:28 PM

karliejai · 02-23-2009, 06:37 PM

stupid.

DevJ · 02-23-2009, 06:56 PM

you got gyped lol
wait for her to respond to your text and dont seem desperate
no hard feelings, but you kinda got played but maybe she was drunk and horny for some girl on girl action?

i think she will message you and take her out again...this time dont blow any money and try to get her drunk and hit it like theres no tomorrow

number335 · 02-23-2009, 07:20 PM

Did the girls suggest the strip club? If so, then they may have played you. Maybe they work there and that's one way they bring in customers.

D1911 · 02-24-2009, 12:19 PM

why did you even agree to pay for a lap dance let alone 8??!??!?!?!?!

After the first one I would have bounced and made her pay for all 8...

MoreCowbell · 02-24-2009, 12:51 PM

Wow. You got owned.

The only way to get your dignity back at this point would be murder.

Sorry.

02-23-2009, 04:21 PM	#1
lowcash_dreamcar Private First Class 26 Rep 106 Posts Drives: his bimmer like it should be Join Date: May 2008 Location: Research Triangle Park iTrader: (1) Garage List 2008 328i Coupe [0.00]	What should I do with this girl? Hey fellas, Me and my buddy were at this bar last saturday and two chicks(1 hot and 1 cute) hit upon us and we started talkin..well, my buddy was interested in the cute one.. So, i went for the hot one Those girls already had some alcohol before they met us. We started talking and after 15 to 20 mins, this hot chick started kissing me. I was taken aback initially cos' we had just met minutes before and hadn't even got a chance to get them drinks. She was really into me and I had some trouble giving her the right kind of kiss she wanted as she kept telling me that I needed to learn to kiss(well, its been quite a long time since I got physical with someone) and I wasn't prepared for this either. But, she persisted with me and we went on for an hour and she started liking it. Man, she was HOT!! Finally, we got out of there and went to a nearby stripbar where things got a little rough. She wanted me 2 buy her a lapdance and then she didn't stop until the place was closed and i guess she took close to 8 dances!!! Man i thought I was acting stupid and tried getting her out of there, but she was creating a scene..Well, we finally had to leave when the place closed and she gave me her number and she and her friend left.. I SMS'd her on sunday and haven't got a reply yet..What do you guys think I should do? Should I call her? If I do, what should I start with? I have not dealt with this kinda chick before..She's damn hot..but seems to be pretty dominant, atleast when she's drunk..It's only bcos she has all the good STUFF , i am still thinking about her..I alteast need to get back my money's worth from her.. Wat dyaul say?
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SfValley335i Colonel 164 Rep 2,409 Posts Drives: Current:135i Sold:335i sedan Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: City of Angels iTrader: (8)	you should've tried to hit it that night... you blew it. $100 she wont answer/call you back
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Seminole Colonel 448 Rep 2,032 Posts Drives: Red Flyer Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: 38.8977° N, 77.0366° W iTrader: (2) Garage List 2008 E90 328i [7.00]	I say unless she answers you back let her go. She already got a lot out of you by getting you to pay for lap dances, and if you try to keep contacting her you are going to look desperate, and then the only reason she is going to get in touch with you will be to wring you out a little more. Just chalk this up as a story about making out with some banging chick. __________________
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TMNT Captain 176 Rep 872 Posts Drives: 330ci ZHP Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: VA iTrader: (0)	If you were going to get any action...your only chance was that night...If she hasn't responded to you it....your done. She was probably drunk and horny. Now shes sober and a bitch.
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02-23-2009, 05:54 PM	#13
xxForgedxx Lieutenant 603 Rep 516 Posts Drives: Slow/Fat Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: USA iTrader: (1)	There are rules that you must follow from now on: -Don't buy girls drinks (or anything for that matter) unless you are already involved with her, she is a friend... or something of that nature. She took you for some CASH, and you thought it was getting you some where. You are out of the cash unfortunately -If some chick starts making out with you within' that time frame in public, it makes you both look trashy. Sure a little bit but a full on make out = a good kind of fail. Did you know you could get herpes from making out with a girl? Even if it's not broken out! -She was too drunk to begin with, so either she is a hoe sober and drunk... or was just too drunk to begin with. -I would call her once more, if she doesn't answer then leave a message... if you don't hear from her again that mean she is a 100% fail and you should delete that shit (keep in mind though, this call is for hook up purposes only) -Consult your friend and his production with the "Cute" one, you can get indirect intel that will answer all your questions. What would I do or think? Psh, stupid hot drunk girl that I made out with at a bar, if she doesn't answer then fuck it. MAN AM I PISSED ABOUT THAT MONEY I LOST! (assuming I am you of course) Oh and finally! DON'T BUY GIRLS SHIT! IF SHE WANTS YOU, MAKE HER WANT YOU FOR FREE!
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.:bHd:. Major 331 Rep 1,149 Posts Drives: E92 335i MT Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: So Cal iTrader: (0)	Read a book called The Game by Neil Strauss, you would have closed that after she made out with you.. How old are you by the way? __________________
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jj thumper Private First Class 44 Rep 166 Posts Drives: 335is Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Oakland Ca iTrader: (0)	It does suck when you’re not expecting it, I feel you. Suck it up, accept your 400 lesson and move on (SF Prices). Drunken girls are like chipmunks with A.D.D. and they like shiny things. And get a better wingman!!
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DevJ Colonel 154 Rep 2,736 Posts Drives: R8 V10+/YMB M4 Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Tulsa, OK iTrader: (1)	you got gyped lol wait for her to respond to your text and dont seem desperate no hard feelings, but you kinda got played but maybe she was drunk and horny for some girl on girl action? i think she will message you and take her out again...this time dont blow any money and try to get her drunk and hit it like theres no tomorrow __________________ ‘23 RRS First Edition '22 X7 M50i '18 R8 V10+ http://www.bimmerpost.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=133578&d=1204654487[/IMG]
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number335 Second Lieutenant 20 Rep 254 Posts Drives: E92 Coupe Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Orange County, CA iTrader: (0)	Did the girls suggest the strip club? If so, then they may have played you. Maybe they work there and that's one way they bring in customers.
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02-24-2009, 12:19 PM	#21
D1911 Private First Class 32 Rep 116 Posts Drives: 08 S2k Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Canada iTrader: (0)	why did you even agree to pay for a lap dance let alone 8??!??!?!?!?! After the first one I would have bounced and made her pay for all 8...
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02-24-2009, 12:51 PM	#22
MoreCowbell Lieutenant Colonel 490 Rep 1,700 Posts Drives: 24 i5M60 23 X740 23 Vette Z06 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Westchester, NY iTrader: (0)	Wow. You got owned. The only way to get your dignity back at this point would be murder. Sorry.
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