Problem

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:23 AM

Alright so about 2 months ago one of my (used to be) good buddies, kinda starting to be again, decided to hook up with this girl that he knew i like(d) and then they went out he screwed her and then she hooked up with another guy so they broke up. Well i still like her but it seems like i will never have my chance, to even tell her that i like her, i mean i think she kinda knows but not sure. Its like right after my friend and her broke up, she went out with the new guy. Let me add that her and I are good friends so it probablly will never happen since im in the "friends zone" sota speak. What would you do, i mean i dont wanna freak her out and be like ya i still like you or whatever but i mean i feel like if i continue acting like the good supporting friend (who helped her throuhg the break up) that, that is all ill be looked at and thats not what i want. So then i figure this guy shes going out with wont last very long so I can wait my chance and try to make my move after they break up, like i tried to do with her last relationship, and then my buddy who went out with her in the beginning tells me that she told him after her current relationship is over she wants to give it a go with him again. Its like once they broke up i thought everything was going good again and then this happens and its like |
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straight down again. So what would you do? Would you just come out and be straight forward with her and tell her how i feel or i dont know im so confused all i know is i wish i could go back in time and never introduce her to my friend, as selfish as that is.

Another thing to add, im generally a nice guy like people take advantage of how nice i am sometimes, should i stop being so nice or what i dont understand this.

!!SORRY IF IM AM RAMBLING, IM JUST KINDA UPSET/PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW

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E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:25 AM

She's being sexing everyone but you, give it up. Like move on.

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:26 AM

ya i know what your saying but its not that easy. I dont know what to do I think im going to tell her how i feel and hope it doesnt fuck up our friendship

EOE90 · 03-24-2006, 12:27 AM

alright.

say it to her face.

if she throws it back at you.

jizz in her eyes.

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:27 AM

hahaha thanks for that laugh austin lol

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:28 AM

See the hard part is trying to find the right words to say i mean i dont even know what i would start with. I dont want to sound like a complete fucking retard either.

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by 325 Baller

ya i know what your saying but its not that easy. I dont know what to do I think im going to tell her how i feel and hope it doesnt fuck up our friendship

You're already in the freind's zone dude, let it go.

BMW F22 · 03-24-2006, 12:29 AM

oh man. My ex is the same way now. She broke up with her bf (after me) 6 months ago and got with this guy for about a month. Then broke up with him and went for his BEST FRIEND. U dont wanna b attached to that. You know what we call girls like that? Slut! I know u like her and all but just forget it. It might make things awkward for u two. But if u dont care then just go ahead.

PS- funny how other people's probs are sooo much easier. LOL

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:30 AM

ya you're prob right

BMW F22 · 03-24-2006, 12:31 AM

if only there arent any women. LOL now it's officially a sausage fest.

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:31 AM

haha i know like i was reading (not sure whose topic but its titled Life Problem i think) and it was like o ya you just do this but when its yourself in the position its so fuckin retardedly (is that even a word?) complicated

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

oh man. My ex is the same way now. She broke up with her bf (after me) 6 months ago and got with this guy for about a month. Then broke up with him and went for his BEST FRIEND. U dont wanna b attached to that. You know what we call girls like that? Slut! I know u like her and all but just forget it. It might make things awkward for u two. But if u dont care then just go ahead.

PS- funny how other people's probs are sooo much easier. LOL

Remeber the story i gave you about the girl from Berkley? Same exact thing, except I chose not to get involved(neither did you in your situation).

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:32 AM

so you guys think i shouldnt even tell her how i feel and just forget about it?

BMW F22 · 03-24-2006, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

Remeber the story i gave you about the girl from Berkley? Same exact thing, except I chose not to get involved(neither did you in your situation).

yeah I remember. It was best left alone.
325Baller-There are girls, and then there are sluts. Just gotta know which type u want. Lady on the streets or just a freak in the sheets?

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:36 AM

If you want a freak, have at it, the pickn's is ripe year round.

325 Baller · 03-24-2006, 12:36 AM

haha no but shes not a slut or anything like that well maybe i just percieve her differently because I like her?

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by 325 Baller

so you guys think i shouldnt even tell her how i feel and just forget about it?

Screw being emo dude. Forget about it, find a girl you think is attractive, befreind her.. and be a casual observer/moderately friendly kinda guy... you'll get your way. But no girl who's damaged goods is worth your time bro.

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by 325 Baller

haha no but shes not a slut or anything like that well maybe i just percieve her differently because I like her?

probably. You sounded kinda wifed to begin w/. Happens to all of us at some point or another, so don't feel ashamed.

BMW F22 · 03-24-2006, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by 325 Baller

so you guys think i shouldnt even tell her how i feel and just forget about it?

Listen- even if all of us tell u not to, U would still tell her if you really wanted to. People just give u opinions, it's up to u to decide which side of the fence to fall over to. If you tell her and she likes u, it's cool. But how long will it last? Then the friendship is fucked. But if u dont tell her, it's gonna bottle up and ur gonna drive urself crazy. Worst thing is that u tell her AND she turns u down. Choose carefully...

E90-4life · 03-24-2006, 12:40 AM

if you guys are really all that cool to begin w/, and you spill the beans, everything should be cool. Otherwise there was NO freindship to begin w/.

shimshimhada · 03-24-2006, 12:41 AM

I didn't even read the original post, BUT JESUS-CHRIST, stop it with the emogheyness.

BMW F22 · 03-24-2006, 12:43 AM

ur just trying to justify for her. You want to convince YOURSELF that she's this and that. When ur in ur own predicament, ur blind as a bat. Remember how u sometimes watch a football game on TV and u see all the openings?? The guys IN the game were confused as fuck and were scrambling around trying to find an answer. Sometimes u just need to take one step back to get one step closer.

03-24-2006, 12:23 AM	#1
325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	Problem Alright so about 2 months ago one of my (used to be) good buddies, kinda starting to be again, decided to hook up with this girl that he knew i like(d) and then they went out he screwed her and then she hooked up with another guy so they broke up. Well i still like her but it seems like i will never have my chance, to even tell her that i like her, i mean i think she kinda knows but not sure. Its like right after my friend and her broke up, she went out with the new guy. Let me add that her and I are good friends so it probablly will never happen since im in the "friends zone" sota speak. What would you do, i mean i dont wanna freak her out and be like ya i still like you or whatever but i mean i feel like if i continue acting like the good supporting friend (who helped her throuhg the break up) that, that is all ill be looked at and thats not what i want. So then i figure this guy shes going out with wont last very long so I can wait my chance and try to make my move after they break up, like i tried to do with her last relationship, and then my buddy who went out with her in the beginning tells me that she told him after her current relationship is over she wants to give it a go with him again. Its like once they broke up i thought everything was going good again and then this happens and its like \| \| \| -------------- straight down again. So what would you do? Would you just come out and be straight forward with her and tell her how i feel or i dont know im so confused all i know is i wish i could go back in time and never introduce her to my friend, as selfish as that is. Another thing to add, im generally a nice guy like people take advantage of how nice i am sometimes, should i stop being so nice or what i dont understand this. !!SORRY IF IM AM RAMBLING, IM JUST KINDA UPSET/PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW !! __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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03-24-2006, 12:25 AM	#2
E90-4life auto pilot 266 Rep 822 Posts Drives: E60 M5 chilln on slicks Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: SoCal iTrader: (0)	She's being sexing everyone but you, give it up. Like move on.
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325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	ya i know what your saying but its not that easy. I dont know what to do I think im going to tell her how i feel and hope it doesnt fuck up our friendship __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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EOE90 Colonel 129 Rep 2,429 Posts Drives: F15 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Laker City iTrader: (0) Garage List 2006 3 [0.00]	alright. say it to her face. if she throws it back at you. jizz in her eyes.
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325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	hahaha thanks for that laugh austin lol __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	See the hard part is trying to find the right words to say i mean i dont even know what i would start with. I dont want to sound like a complete fucking retard either. __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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BMW F22 Major General 3566 Rep 9,788 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	oh man. My ex is the same way now. She broke up with her bf (after me) 6 months ago and got with this guy for about a month. Then broke up with him and went for his BEST FRIEND. U dont wanna b attached to that. You know what we call girls like that? Slut! I know u like her and all but just forget it. It might make things awkward for u two. But if u dont care then just go ahead. PS- funny how other people's probs are sooo much easier. LOL
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325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	ya you're prob right __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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BMW F22 Major General 3566 Rep 9,788 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	if only there arent any women. LOL now it's officially a sausage fest.
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325 Baller Colonel 264 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: X3 28i Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Boca Raton, Florida iTrader: (1) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	so you guys think i shouldnt even tell her how i feel and just forget about it? __________________ ----------------------------------------------------
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E90-4life auto pilot 266 Rep 822 Posts Drives: E60 M5 chilln on slicks Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: SoCal iTrader: (0)	If you want a freak, have at it, the pickn's is ripe year round.
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E90-4life auto pilot 266 Rep 822 Posts Drives: E60 M5 chilln on slicks Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: SoCal iTrader: (0)	if you guys are really all that cool to begin w/, and you spill the beans, everything should be cool. Otherwise there was NO freindship to begin w/.
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03-24-2006, 12:41 AM	#21
shimshimhada Brigadier General 442 Rep 4,838 Posts Drives: Portal Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Portal iTrader: (2)	I didn't even read the original post, BUT JESUS-CHRIST, stop it with the emogheyness.
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03-24-2006, 12:43 AM	#22
BMW F22 Major General 3566 Rep 9,788 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	ur just trying to justify for her. You want to convince YOURSELF that she's this and that. When ur in ur own predicament, ur blind as a bat. Remember how u sometimes watch a football game on TV and u see all the openings?? The guys IN the game were confused as fuck and were scrambling around trying to find an answer. Sometimes u just need to take one step back to get one step closer.
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