nice guys NEVER finish last..

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 02:08 PM

@ work and found this.

BellasBmw · 04-14-2006, 02:13 PM

O man.. that was like reading my exact thoughts.

Especially:

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Marcelle: A bad boy has a bit of danger about him—and if you fall for him, you'll have a long drop. My first bad boy, Erik, had a quick sense of humor, a tragic family history, and gorgeous green eyes. His best friend Steven had the hugest crush on me and was such a good guy. I went for Erik.

This was my exact situation down to a tee, even the color of her bad boy's eyes were the same as my x. And his best friend had a huge huge crush on me, and he was a good guy. But nope, didnt intrigue me.

I agree with the part when they said that girls go for bad boys in their 20's. I think that once i get older and am ready for marriage, ill look for the good guy.

Its so true that you cannot change a bad boy. I tried, my family tried, and even my x tried to change..but in the end, he is still a fuck up with a tragic background. I learned my lesson.

BMW F22 · 04-14-2006, 02:18 PM

haha NICE!!! Guess which type I am?? LOL

puck724 · 04-14-2006, 02:32 PM

i dont mind being the nice guy. its true that ive gotton hurt and burned, but in the end thats who i am. ive tired being the "bad boy" it works, but i wasnt happy. if i change myself into someone im not to get the girl and to get some action, then i think i think thats worse than losing the girl. i would have lost myself.

my .02

BMW F22 · 04-14-2006, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by puck724

i dont mind being the nice guy. its true that ive gotton hurt and burned, but in the end thats who i am. ive tired being the "bad boy" it works, but i wasnt happy. if i change myself into someone im not to get the girl and to get some action, then i think i think thats worse than losing the girl. i would have lost myself.

my .02

Amen

Flyingfart · 04-14-2006, 02:54 PM

Bad boys seeks nice girls that are bad girls inside to put them in their place. Once they see they been played, the run after the ones that played them. The question is...
Are you a bad enough to play?

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Originally Posted by puck724

i dont mind being the nice guy. its true that ive gotton hurt and burned, but in the end thats who i am. ive tired being the "bad boy" it works, but i wasnt happy. if i change myself into someone im not to get the girl and to get some action, then i think i think thats worse than losing the girl. i would have lost myself.

my .02

going to what you said puck724

I have a Monday !0:20am open appointment,
Do you like to fill that in.
We take Medicare and MDIPA and Tri-Care standard.

Flyingfart M.D., M.P.H./American Psychiatric Association

puck724 · 04-14-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Flyingfart

Bad boys seeks nice girls that are bad girls inside to put them in their place. Once they see they been played, the run after the ones that played them. The question is...
Are you a bad enough to play?

going to what you said puck724

I have a Monday !0:20am open appointment,
Do you like to fill that in.
We take Medicare and MDIPA and Tri-Care standard.

Flyingfart M.D., M.P.H./American Psychiatric Association

slubu · 04-14-2006, 03:06 PM

Given my post last week of my dating techinques, it's suffice to say i'm not a good guy. Maybe that's why she is coming over to cook me dinner tomorrow night on a 2nd date...

noflash · 04-14-2006, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

Given my post last week of my dating techinques, it's suffice to say i'm not a good guy. Maybe that's why she is coming over to cook me dinner tomorrow night on a 2nd date...

Be REALLY bad and let her read that thread!! I dare you.

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

Given my post last week of my dating techinques, it's suffice to say i'm not a good guy. Maybe that's why she is coming over to cook me dinner tomorrow night on a 2nd date...

good for you... i'll look forward to reading about how she threw a plate of hot spagetti on your lap then boned out. :rocks:

slubu · 04-14-2006, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

good for you... i'll look forward to reading about how she threw a plate of hot spagetti on your lap then boned out. :rocks:

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by puck724

i dont mind being the nice guy. its true that ive gotton hurt and burned, but in the end thats who i am. ive tired being the "bad boy" it works, but i wasnt happy. if i change myself into someone im not to get the girl and to get some action, then i think i think thats worse than losing the girl. i would have lost myself.

my .02

Well it never really worked if you were never really happy.

I tried being the "bad guy" as well, totally out of character for me and all my cloesest freinds could tell, because it's not who I am. I'm not a push over, but I'm sure not to kick and scream if a girl doesn't come through, it's her loss, life goes on. I figure any girl that is a flake or acts shady isn't worth my time to begin w/. If girls are scared by someone who respects them and treats them w/ courtesy, by all means they should run away, they have bigger issues than I could ever help. Add to that I've never been the type of guy that likes to be "all up in the mix" anyway - if you know what I mean.

deutschmann59 · 04-14-2006, 03:27 PM

If there was any justice in the world, all the girls going from bad guy to bad guy would end up alone in the end because all the good guys are already taken. That's what they should get for going after morons.

Ahh, but this sort of thing never happens. Hot girls can get whatever guy they want. Girls with beauty have a much greater advantage over all guys I think.

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by sharp1183

Ahh, but this sort of thing never happens. Hot girls can get whatever guy they want. Girls with beauty have a much greater advantage over all guys I think.

why would you want the "hott" girl anyway?

I think this is the biggest mistake guys make is going for the "hott" girl, becasue she already knows you and every other guy "wants" her, but of course if you act like you don't, may work to your +. I say go for the "decent" chick and watch how things "improve' as you get to know her. Most hott girls are damaged goods anyway.

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

shouldn't you be flipping me off???

a little "nice" if you ask me... can't be that big of an a-hole

slubu · 04-14-2006, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

shouldn't you be flipping me off???

a little "nice" if you ask me... can't be that big of an a-hole

nah man all in fun and games. the only thing in the world that upsets me is traffic. im pretty laid back.

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

nah man all in fun and games. the only thing in the world that upsets me is traffic. im pretty laid back.

Good, you can take e-jabs, fun times.

bavarian19 · 04-14-2006, 03:46 PM

I like to think Im an average guy. Pretty easy going, but always active. I would fall under the 'nice guy' category, and for me, its what I want.

I dont go for the 'it' girl because I know that she will probably be quite the handful. Instead, I go for the cute girl whose out to have fun. This way, you know your not displeased with her. If Im lucky, it can become more than just fun, but Im not stressing that.

I have been single most of my life. The few relationships Ive had (3 as of now) have been great relationships (looking back)... just didnt work out. I would rather have that than to have 15 relationships, and none of them worthwhile.

Single and enjoying it as of now...

E90-4life · 04-14-2006, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by bavarian19

I like to think Im an average guy. Pretty easy going, but always active. I would fall under the 'nice guy' category, and for me, its what I want.

I dont go for the 'it' girl because I know that she will probably be quite the handful. Instead, I go for the cute girl whose out to have fun. This way, you know your not displeased with her. If Im lucky, it can become more than just fun, but Im not stressing that.

I have been single most of my life. The few relationships Ive had (3 as of now) have been great relationships (looking back)... just didnt work out. I would rather have that than to have 15 relationships, and none of them worthwhile.

Single and enjoying it as of now...

that's a good life. good man.

NaTuReB0Y · 04-14-2006, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by puck724

i dont mind being the nice guy. its true that ive gotton hurt and burned, but in the end thats who i am. ive tired being the "bad boy" it works, but i wasnt happy. if i change myself into someone im not to get the girl and to get some action, then i think i think thats worse than losing the girl. i would have lost myself.

my .02

but you're still a virgin at the end of the night......

bavarian19 · 04-14-2006, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

but you're still a virgin at the end of the night......

... and STD free

puck724 · 04-14-2006, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

but you're still a virgin at the end of the night......

lol. and not having to pay child support..lol...

it doesnt bother me that i still am one at the end of the night. :rocks:

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