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      11-03-2008, 12:09 AM   #1
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why do people say this ??

my good friend has 2007 bmw 335i and has it modded, like aero lip, wheels, exhaust ....ect. and i have the same thing planned for my car when i get it and when we are (in a group) and start talking about cars and they ask him what kind of car he drives and he says brand new 335i people start getting pissed and getting jealous very fast, and the thing is that he is paying for his own monthly payments and everything, the thing is that he got the car under his parents name because he was too youung to get a long under his name and + his parents have better credit and didn't require much hassle, and they start accusing him of being a spoiled brat and start telling him that its BS and how he doesn't diserve it, i mean why don't we diserve to have a nice car when we feel like that we are responsible enough to drive a good car and make monthly payments for it, parents didn't make 40K payment or nothing, they just signed their name on the bmw financial paper and that was the end of it. i mean there is nothing wrong with us driving good cars and there is no reason for people to start getting pissed/jealous/ mad about young people who are driving bmws, not all of us have rich parents that just make 40K payment and everyone thinks that we are spoiled.

i just thought i'd get this off my chest and get some opinions from people about why do people say this kind of things.
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mostly that second part...
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mostly that second part...
i meant ignorant to the fact that the OPs friend is actually making the payments himself
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i meant ignorant to the fact that the OPs friend is actually making the payments himself
I understood what you meant, but i was just saying that 98% of all haterdom comes from jealousy. Think about it, 98% all the vandalism and keying crap that happens to our cars comes from people who cant afford (or dont have parents who can afford) cars like this.

I mean seriously, have you ever seen some guy pull up in a porsche and go key "douche" into the side of a BMW? NO, because he can afford it, and therefore lacks the envy to drive him to commit vandalism.

(and before you ask, that other 2% of haterism comes from angry women who have been cheated on)
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envy. just ignore it.
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I understood what you meant, but i was just saying that 98% of all haterdom comes from jealousy. Think about it, 98% all the vandalism and keying crap that happens to our cars comes from people who cant afford (or dont have parents who can afford) cars like this.

I mean seriously, have you ever seen some guy pull up in a porsche and go key "douche" into the side of a BMW? NO, because he can afford it, and therefore lacks the envy to drive him to commit vandalism.

(and before you ask, that other 2% of haterism comes from angry women who have been cheated on)
No, the guy in the porsche is too scared to get caught so he pays some of his goons to do it. lolz
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I saw a couple of guys from high school the other night before going into a party. I came out a couple of hours later and someone had spit on my car. I drove a sentra in high school so ya big upgrade lol. Theyre haters man. I never knew what a difference a car makes on people until i got the bimmer.
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Jealous assholes. Ignore them and move on, they are scum.
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I saw a couple of guys from high school the other night before going into a party. I came out a couple of hours later and someone had spit on my car. I drove a sentra in high school so ya big upgrade lol. Theyre haters man. I never knew what a difference a car makes on people until i got the bimmer.
I'm ganna have to get some guards that'll stand and watch my car after I park it lol. But theirs always haters for everything. Just gotta ignore it.
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if you offered the key to the car, they'd take it
when people say stuff like that to me I just say "when I or my parents start buying stuff using your money, that's when we'll report to you on how we spend it..."
and then I become condescending by feeding off their insecurities...

yes.. I'm no better than he is.. but I like fighting fire with fire
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tell them it's just a 335...a goddamn 3 series

if you can't afford one then you need to work harder...
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i just dont tell people what I drive, unless they are good friends of mine. I mean, i drive a 325i, so its not top of the line, but the whole stigma is there. and I paid for half of it (and the other half came from money I saved my parents and myself from graduating from college early)
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at first i thought for sure you were not from CA...but you are!!....you'd think so cal people would be hip to this already?
tell them to get a life!
if they are mean and bitter u dont need them as friends!

I'm done making friends! Its time to make money!
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tell them it's just a 335...a goddamn 3 series

if you can't afford one then you need to work harder...
it's not that easy for some people
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i am 20 and paying for my own car... i dont even care if ppl think i deserve it or not, i know where i stand myself

also, a lot of the time people attack u being young and drivcing a nice car has to do with how u present urself. (aka if ur a dickhead or not)
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ignorance and envy
yes, i understand what your saying but i still don't get why would people get mad when someone else has a better car ? i always hear people HATING on Persians for driving nice cars to school, i mean whats the point, their parents love their children and maybe thats why ? or maybe because they diserve it, all i found out is that in general its people who don't have good realtionship with their parents and they are not excpecting the same thing from their parents and they get mad for some reason such a sad story.


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envy. just ignore it.
i do lol, all i wanted to understand is WHY

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I saw a couple of guys from high school the other night before going into a party. I came out a couple of hours later and someone had spit on my car. I drove a sentra in high school so ya big upgrade lol. Theyre haters man. I never knew what a difference a car makes on people until i got the bimmer.
hahaha i know exactly what your saying, me and my bro came to this country 4 years ago and 2 years ago we were as well in Engilsh as we are now and they didn't take us seriously because "supposadly" we were weirdos lol and now since my bro drives a bimmer and so does everyone in the family, for some reason they found respect for all of us and taking us in a different way. i guess its allllll about money in the USA. another sad story, in my country money didn't really matter us much as friends but here in the USA, your friend will leave you for 20$ lol

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Jealous assholes. Ignore them and move on, they are scum.
+1 and losers

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at first i thought for sure you were not from CA...but you are!!....you'd think so cal people would be hip to this already?
tell them to get a life!
if they are mean and bitter u dont need them as friends!

I'm done making friends! Its time to make money!
they are not my friends lol, i don't those kind of people get in my life because i know they are going to change on view or another on things and i don't want that, its just weird to me how they can't realize how stupid they sound when they say stuff like this.

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i am 20 and paying for my own car... i dont even care if ppl think i deserve it or not, i know where i stand myself

also, a lot of the time people attack u being young and drivcing a nice car has to do with how u present urself. (aka if ur a dickhead or not)


very good point of view i like how you said it. :thumbsup
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