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      08-21-2014, 08:48 AM   #155
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Unfortunately I can't watch YouTubes, work filter has them all blocked.

Care to explain what it is, or should I just watch it when I get home?
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Left my SO last night after 4.5 years.

So you pulled the trigger. Good job. Congrats.
I hope you find something better. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you have doubts in your mind.
Relationships should be mostly happy and addictive. You're supposed to be addicted to your SO like crack cocaine. Even if you two argue a few times.
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Unfortunately I can't watch YouTubes, work filter has them all blocked.

Care to explain what it is, or should I just watch it when I get home?
just Changes by 2pac .. things going to be different right?
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It's going to be stressful because I still have to live with her until she moves out. It's a stepping stone, just tired of being worn out.

I am going to plan a couple trips though. First I am going to fly back home to Michigan and visit my family. Then I am going to fly to Vegas for a weekend and get weird.
I have been in that position. Lived with a girl and then broke up with her, yet had to remain in the same two-bedroom apartment. It'll be fun when she starts bringing guys home, trust me. I speak of personal experience.
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      08-21-2014, 09:16 AM   #159
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So you pulled the trigger. Good job. Congrats.
I hope you find something better. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you have doubts in your mind.
Relationships should be mostly happy and addictive. You're supposed to be addicted to your SO like crack cocaine. Even if you two argue a few times.
Exactly, and I haven't been happy. I feel like I've devoted so much, to just get complaints over petty things. We couldn't communicate in a healthy way. It just needed to be done, and it sucks, because I do love her.
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I have been in that position. Lived with a girl and then broke up with her, yet had to remain in the same two-bedroom apartment. It'll be fun when she starts bringing guys home, trust me. I speak of personal experience.
We live in a one bedroom, and I pay for everything. If she so much as thinks about bringing someone else into MY apartment, then I will do the one thing I said I never would, and put her on the street.

I tried to make this as civil as possible, and offered to help her move. If she has any respect left for me, she will not do something that dumb, knowing the repercussions.
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just Changes by 2pac .. things going to be different right?
Changes is one of my favorite songs. Nice.

Things will be different, but I am completely independent and don't rely on her for anything. If anything, I will just miss having someone to come home to. I don't want to find a someone else right now, or even strange for that matter. I want to focus on myself and get my priorities in line. Work is going to pay for me to go back to school, so I have that going for me at least.
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Changes is one of my favorite songs. Nice.

Things will be different, but I am completely independent and don't rely on her for anything. If anything, I will just miss having someone to come home to. I don't want to find a someone else right now, or even strange for that matter. I want to focus on myself and get my priorities in line. Work is going to pay for me to go back to school, so I have that going for me at least.
Yeah.. I broke up years ago and I'm still in recovery.. it'll take time, but you will be totally different living the life you want.. but it'll take a lot of work
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I will feel that one day I'm sure. Gotta keep on keepin on.
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I will feel that one day I'm sure. Gotta keep on keepin on.
You will, man.
Keep reminding yourself that you did the right thing.
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Dude count your blessings that it was not a marriage like this, but a relationship; one that is relatively easy to get out of.

If there's one thing I learned from my failed marriage, it's that love isn't enough. Being constantly worn down is no way to live, bro. Freedom at it's finest.
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We live in a one bedroom, and I pay for everything. If she so much as thinks about bringing someone else into MY apartment, then I will do the one thing I said I never would, and put her on the street.

I tried to make this as civil as possible, and offered to help her move. If she has any respect left for me, she will not do something that dumb, knowing the repercussions.
OK, then you're in a different situation. I had a two bedroom and bills were evenly split down the middle.
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Dude count your blessings that it was not a marriage like this, but a relationship; one that is relatively easy to get out of.

If there's one thing I learned from my failed marriage, it's that love isn't enough. Being constantly worn down is no way to live, bro. Freedom at it's finest.
Yeah, I am trying to take things in stride right now and trying not to dwell on everything that's happened. Right now I need to focus on me and do all the things I haven't been able to because of this relationship.

I am going to go on trips. Make new friends. Drink a beer at noon. Put lesbians on the 65'' TV. Go golfing on a Saturday morning.
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OK, then you're in a different situation. I had a two bedroom and bills were evenly split down the middle.
Yeah. I am the sole provider, so basically she was going to have an all expense paid trip to school for the next 4 years while I put my life on hold.


Not happening.
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for tonight..


and later
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Yeah. I am the sole provider, so basically she was going to have an all expense paid trip to school for the next 4 years while I put my life on hold.


Not happening.
How old are you and your ex?
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How old are you and your ex?
I am 24. She is 22.
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      08-21-2014, 10:19 AM   #175
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Left my SO last night after 4.5 years.
Congrats. You did the right thing. Be strong and keep busy!
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I am 24. She is 22.
Whoa! WTF? You're only 24? From reading your comments i thought you'll be close to 30.

Hell no! Don't even think of getting into a relationship until you're 28 or 29. Your 20s is when you're supposed to meet all sorts of women. travel, do crazy shit, do fun shit. Don't loose out in life because you want a "girlfriend".
You don't need a girlfriend. It's ok to have a female friend or friend with benefits.
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