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      10-23-2014, 02:15 PM   #23
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ya know, I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
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No, we arent in middle school.If you want to talk to someone then just do it! If you ask a woman for her number to her that obviously means you want to talk to her. Then if there is no communication on your end for days its basically a big "Fuck You" to her.
It was a bad attempt at sarcasm, I'm damn near 30 years old and with a long-term GF. I don't have problems with women. That said I was never really one for attempting to date randoms. Nearly every girl I've dated was somehow socially connected, maybe 2-3 exceptions. I always found it's better to focus on people who you know share interests/personalities than take random shots in the dark with girls you meet out on the town. That's just me though.
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      10-23-2014, 02:25 PM   #26
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Hey guys,

Need a few tips. I'm pretty good at getting numbers, but awful at getting responses haha. I usually wait 3-4 days before texting, and typically say something like, "Hey, _____, it's Yawar, we met at ______! Have a good day today!" Very simple, that doesn't require them to be binded to do something. Am I doing something wrong? Is there a trick to this I'm not getting?

Advice would be appreciated!
Quick and dirty... you sound like a little boy sending a text like that. Lose the exclamation points and start a conversation. Don't bother with the cute shit. If you want to see her again then just make plans and see her again.
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      10-23-2014, 02:32 PM   #27
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Well fuck me haha.

Thanks for the advice.

Damn...really liked this last one too...oh well, life goes on.

Will listen to this advice and report back.
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It was a bad attempt at sarcasm, I'm damn near 30 years old and with a long-term GF. I don't have problems with women. That said I was never really one for attempting to date randoms. Nearly every girl I've dated was somehow socially connected, maybe 2-3 exceptions. I always found it's better to focus on people who you know share interests/personalities than take random shots in the dark with girls you meet out on the town. That's just me though.
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      10-23-2014, 02:50 PM   #29
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Your texts are stupid and generic. "Have a great day!" Anyone that knows anything knows you don't care how their day is going or if they have a great day. At least be funny or original and give her a reason to respond. Otherwise, you'll be stuck with a "K, thanks" or "You too" generic response back. Then you just have to text again.

Weak game.
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Change your name from Yawar to something normal.
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      10-23-2014, 02:55 PM   #31
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Your texts are stupid and generic. "Have a great day!" Anyone that knows anything knows you don't care how their day is going or if they have a great day. At least be funny or original and give her a reason to respond. Otherwise, you'll be stuck with a "K, thanks" or "You too" generic response back. Then you just have to text again.

Weak game.
Dude, did you see what they did to your delete thread?
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      10-23-2014, 02:57 PM   #32
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Well fuck me haha.

Thanks for the advice.

Damn...really liked this last one too...oh well, life goes on.

Will listen to this advice and report back.
It's usually the ones you like that makes you nervous.

If i got a girls number, i'll text her first thing the next day! I dont fck around.

I will let her know that i have interest in her and i'm very picky. I don't play kindergarten games.
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You wait 3-4 days? She's lost interest.
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I don't think you should wait 4 days. If you are really interested, maybe 2 days. Don't play stupid waiting games.

Edited: Haha, I posted before I saw Sara's reply. See, us girls are thinking the same thing!
I've given my number exactly to 5 people in hopes of it becoming something in my life and I have had a 15 minute rule always.

Now, I've gotten a few thousand numbers in my time, and I've never texted any of them.
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Well fuck me haha.

Thanks for the advice.

Damn...really liked this last one too...oh well, life goes on.

Will listen to this advice and report back.
Always make sure the recipient knows who you are, if she's hot, you probably weren't the only one interested in her that day, so if I were a man, I'd go in the lines of giving her the impression you remember a detail of her. Nothing much, but we women eat up this shit so bad.
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      10-23-2014, 03:09 PM   #35
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You're much better off giving them your number. Was great chatting w you, enjoy your night, here's my number give me a shout sometime. Then walk away and don't look back. Women invariably want guys who have something better to do and by giving them your # you're being assertive but considerate of their privacy. 9/10 times you'll get a text within an hour.
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This was going to be my suggestion as well. Give them your number and leave the ball in their court.
If I may add.....

Make sure it is those prepaid track phone as well. Ones you buy it cheap and dump em. So that you can just trash it, if she happen to be crazy psychopath.




Yeah, +1 for giving your # to her. Whenever I got someone's number , tend to lose it.
So far, I lost 6 gal's phone number (yrs and yrs ago before digital cell). I even lost my cousin's number on my own wedding. I am sure he is fairly pissed by now. lol
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Change your name from Yawar to something normal.
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Hey guys,

Need a few tips. I'm pretty good at getting numbers, but awful at getting responses haha. I usually wait 3-4 days before texting, and typically say something like, "Hey, _____, it's Yawar, we met at ______! Have a good day today!" Very simple, that doesn't require them to be binded to do something. Am I doing something wrong? Is there a trick to this I'm not getting?

Advice would be appreciated!
You're doing it wrong. Be a man, and be assertive, text them with a goal and conversation in mind. Time and not looking desperate is one thing, another is to actually be interesting.
Read this thread after I posted this, all solid advice.

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OP bro I know, she knows, you know your just trying to get into them sugar walls. The best thing to do after you get her number is to ask her if she likes daggers.
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I called my wife the same night I met her. I flat out told her that we were going to name our son Sean. 15 years ago she gave birth to our son Sean
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It's only a game if you make it one. I talk to these women straight up and either they with me or not. It's really that easy.
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I do seem to recall the unwritten "2-3 day rule" to call someone before texting became a thing. Something about calling the next day that appeared too desperate back then. Definitely not the case these days.
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Drink a ton of Miller Fortune like I do, then when you go out, half the time you don't remember what you say, but it's usually completely absurd, and whatever woman you encounter, they call you the next day.

Essentially, you need to stop being a pussy. Since nobody else wants to say it, I will.


Don't be a pussy.



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I do seem to recall the unwritten "2-3 day rule" to call someone before texting became a thing. Something about calling the next day that appeared too desperate back then. Definitely not the case these days.
Why wait? Who gives a fuck what "rules" are in place. The sooner you call, the sooner you find out if there is interest. If not, move on to the next one. It's a jungle out there broski. Back in the day, everyone was banging one snatch and hanging on like Donkey Kong.


Too much crazy these days. Need to play the field.
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You obviously forgot to send her an Emoji with a heart and a thumbs up.

Kids these days...
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