I would say depends on the goal setting. I achieved very FEW so far.
Married- yes
kid-yes
house(s) I wanted- no
edumacation/degree I wanted within time frame- no
job-no
health-no
financial comfort-no
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Originally Posted by TXSTYLE
First, IMO, 'success' is a very: "individual phenomena".
Some count success with how much $$$ they have and or can accumulate. You can't take it with you so I find the "chasing of money" to be meaningless when all is said and done. That is NOT to say that having a certain amount (depending on your living environment/situation) of 'financial comfort' is evil or vain. But if it "rules your world and drive" then you're certainly missing the true meaning of life and will more than likely be in for a most troubling end.
For others... It can be Health and Family & Friends. And for others still: Peace and Spirituality.
With that being said... I personally have achieved a great level of success in how I gauge my 'success': Middle-aged and very happily married with 2 beautiful baby boys! I am quite healthy and fit. My wife is also very healthy. We have a beautiful home for the past 14yrs in a wonderful neighborhood. We belong to a loving and wonderful church family. We have many friends. We both enjoy our careers. We are financially comfortable with our home and one newer car (hers) as our only true debt. Money in the banks. But most of all, love, peace and contentment. Anything more in our world/life would simply be toppings on our desert.
Sure... To own a Exotic car, even bigger home, travel the world, would be nice or great even, but not necessary to say I am successful.
What say you...?
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Originally Posted by davis449
How I measure my own success (In order of importance):
Years without children: 32
Years NOT married: 32
Regular School Completed: Yes
Desired College Degrees Acquired: Yes
Make a decent living (money-wise) and stand on my own 2 feet without having to mooch of mommy and daddy: Yes
Drive something I love: Yes
Decent\enjoyable job in my career field: Yes
Find a girl that's cool with all of the above: Accomplished
Do I consider myself successful by my own standards? Yes.
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