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      02-10-2011, 06:06 PM   #41
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Though I hate generalizations, if I had to make a similar observation, based upon my interactions (which are completely anecdotal), it's that females tend to seek empathy whilst males tend to seek solutions. So for men, the response to stress from work is to attempt to alleviate that stress. For women, it's to talk about it, which often comes across as bitching or complaining but at least in my experiences they just seem to be wired to talk about shit and get it off their chest, while men will just take it for what it is, gain nothing from talking about it with an unrelated party (unless it's a specific piece of advice they're asking for), and go about what makes them feel better.
That's why BJ is the best thing in the world. Takes care of both problems simultaneously .... but try to make women understand that
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