[Boben5]

$3400 a month, that is depressing! You must be making a really good salary for her to be awarded that. If you are going into a marriage and your the one going in with the assets, I don't care if she is a victoria secret model, you have to get a prenup signed. That person you think loves you can change her mind like the direction of the wind changes and take everything you worked hard for. Your signing a contract when you get married so sign a separate contract going in. There is no way im getting married without a prenup. Now the hard part of course is introducing it to your partner, its very stressful, and usually you only get one shot at it. If she hesitates at first you can forget about her signing it!!