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Originally Posted by MrSugarSkulls
Let your friend know a strapping handsome 26 year old awaits her in Southern California with the sex for free trip 
I just saved your friendship. You're welcome.  |
Dude I'm afraid this friendship is beyond saving.
She's really smart and open, and I respect her for that but sadly I come from a different world.
Lets use us two as an example.
I have high hopes of you making a record that would make my driving playlist change for once. I decide you need really kinky material for it and i forget I'm not single and decide to provide it.
I'd tell you when I'd be there, and in which hotel. I wouldn't expect you to change your schedule for me if not given at least two weeks warning and if I felt like your performance was going down, I'd take you to dinner and you wouldn't lose a cent.
Now, let's say we have been serious about getting closer, and we'd find we need to see if we could make it in real world? You can buy dinner, I'd still be paying for my own ticket since I wouldn't expect you to want me to cover your costs for flying in to meet me either.
Come on guys! A guy needs to be a really good friend/ the one I love for me not to feel like shit for letting them spend on me. It doesn't matter if we're talking about a car, a lunch, or a trip. I'd feel weird because if I wanted to be there, I would go. Here it's so damn different, to have a pair of legs to spread is a free ride?
I don't get two things. One, why would you want to be used, and two, why is it okay for you to be used?
Anyway, I doubt this tiny cultural difference will be swept under a carpet. If a person truly thinks she's entitled to bitch about a hotel costs because she wishes to sleep alone, I think I would have little to give.
