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Well...this is not a fair comparison. Short hair with highlights...vs long hair.
As a general rule...I think most guys prefer long hair. But as I have grown older...I notice that I appreciate the short hair look...more and more each day. I think that you should wear it how you want to...by the looks of your pics, you can definitely pull off either style. Not all girls can do this...so enjoy it for now!
And keep posting pics cutie!